Your Deepest Pain Holds Your Greatest Power.
When loss is met with awareness, something awakens inside you —
quiet strength, deep clarity, and the freedom to live again.
My journey didn’t begin with healing.
It began with loss — and the slow unraveling that followed.
Only when I learned to meet the pain with awareness did everything change.
Your loss is not the end of your story.
It is the doorway into your power.
You’re not meant to “move on.”
You’re meant to move inward — into the deeper truth
beneath the pain.
When awareness meets loss, the pressure dissolves:
✅ Heaviness loosens
✅ Numbness softens
✅ Clarity returns
✅ Love begins to move again
This is not recovery.
This is transformation.
My Story Didn’t Begin in Light.
But it led me there.
Almost 25 years ago, I lost my daughter.
Her presence shaped everything I teach today,
even though I no longer share her image out of respect and privacy.
For years I survived without knowing the pain was still living inside me.
I functioned. I kept going. I built a life.
But the roots of the loss were untouched.
When everything finally surfaced,
I began a journey inward — not away from the pain,
but toward the truth beneath it.
What I discovered changed everything.
Life didn’t become lighter.
It became deeper — clearer, quieter, and more meaningful.
Later, becoming a father again showed me the true nature of healing:
It doesn’t erase the past.
It frees the love that remained trapped inside it.
Choose Your Starting Point
✅ GRIEVING WITH AWARENESS
This heartfelt guide shares the real beginning of my healing journey, and the powerful truth I discovered inside grief. Includes simple practices and deep insights to help you reconnect with what’s still alive in you.
✅ 14 DAYS MEDITATION CHALLENGE
Short, daily meditations to help you quiet the mind, open the heart, and begin healing gently—without letting go of the love you still carry.
✅ 3 PILLARS OF TRANSFORMATION
These 5 videos gently guide you through the deeper truths that helped me begin again—without letting go of the love I still carry.
Time doesn’t heal loss.
Awareness does.
Most approaches teach you how to cope.
But coping doesn’t dissolve the inner pressure.
Awareness does.
When you learn to observe the energy beneath the pain,
everything begins to shift:
clarity returns, heaviness lifts,
and life becomes meaningful again.
This is for you if…
✅ You’ve lost a child or someone deeply connected to your soul
✅ You feel heavy, numb, or disconnected
✅ You’re tired of “coping” and want real inner movement
✅ You want depth and clarity, not clichés
✅ You want life to move again — without guilt
"Each of these resources carries a part of my story.
They aren’t just lessons—they are lived truths that helped me rise after loss.
If you're ready for the next step, I’ll walk it with you."
—Ellery—
READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP IN YOUR JOURNEY
FAQS
What is Childlosshealing?
Childlosshealing is a transformational path for parents who have lost a child. It’s not therapy, not spiritual bypassing, and not about moving on. It’s about awakening through grief—finding deep peace, meaning, and connection again, without denying the pain.
What makes your approach different from therapy or support groups?
Unlike traditional therapy, which often focuses on coping strategies or retelling your story, this work is rooted in inner transformation. You’re not asked to talk endlessly or fix yourself—you’re guided into a deeper state of awareness where suffering naturally begins to dissolve. Support groups create community. This path helps you experience real change.
What are the 3 Pillars of Transformation?
🧠 Mental Wellness – Learn how to observe your thoughts and break free from emotional loops.
🌱 Spiritual Growth – Connect with the part of you that is untouched by grief.
💔 Grief Transformation – Turn grief into a sacred path toward purpose, love, and awakening.
Is this work religious or spiritual?
It’s deeply spiritual—but not religious. There are no beliefs to adopt. You’ll be guided to directly experience peace, clarity, and presence for yourself. Many people describe it as coming home to a deeper part of themselves.
Can grief really be transformed?
Yes. When grief is fully met with presence, something extraordinary happens: the pain begins to soften, and a new kind of love and clarity emerges. This doesn’t mean forgetting. It means allowing grief to become a sacred teacher, not a lifelong wound.
Is this right for me if I’m still in deep pain?
Absolutely. You don’t need to be ready. You don’t need to be strong. This path meets you exactly where you are—whether you feel numb, overwhelmed, or disconnected. All you need is a willingness to turn inward.
How do I begin?
You can start with one of the free resources:
📘 Grieving with Awareness (e-book)
🎥 The 3 Pillars of Transformation (video series)
🧘 Quiet the Mind, Open the Heart (14-day meditation challenge)
You’ll also be invited to join Heart Warriors, our private community.
What if I’ve tried everything already and nothing helped?
That’s exactly why this work exists. It’s not another mindset tool or emotional technique. It’s a return to your truest self—a shift in awareness that happens gently, without force. If nothing else has reached you, this path might be the one that does.
Do I have to relive trauma or painful memories?
No. This work is trauma-informed and nervous-system safe. You will never be asked to relive your pain. You’ll be guided into quiet, present awareness, where healing unfolds from within—safely and gently.
I Can't Afford It
I understand financial concerns. My goal is to make this as accessible as possible and we can discuss flexible options that suit your situation.
Can I speak to someone before I decide?
Yes. You can book a free, no-pressure clarity call to ask your questions and feel into whether this path is for you. If you feel something stir within you, follow that feeling.